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Mother Hides Recording Device In Son’s Backpack And Is Shocked By What She Hears

Mother Hides Recording Device In Son’s Backpack And Is Shocked By What She Hears March 2, 2020Leave a comment

Camden Davis's mother, Milissa Davis, wasn't sure what to do after her son's behavior took a turn for the worse. She reached out to her son's school to see if they knew why his attitude had changed, but no one she spoke to seemed to care. Then, she decided to do a little investigating of her own, and what she uncovered left her stunned.

She Loved Her Life

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Milissa Davis from Baton Rouge, Louisiana, was a married mother of three young boys. She loved her job because she got to work with mini horses that are trained to be therapy animals. But she had one family member who kept her very busy.

Her Son Was a Handful

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Her then-12-year-old son, Camden, was autistic, so he kept her really busy. Naturally, she was very protective, so when he began to behave oddly, she started checking to see what was wrong. And the first thing that came to her mind was his situation at school. Could his teachers be stressing him out?

The School Had the Best Reputation

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Davis considered herself lucky because Camden got into the Greater Baton Rouge Hope Academy. "Inclusion, encouragement, positive relationships and recognition of student accomplishment," were part of the school's motto. So, she assumed her special needs son would be safe there. But, she was mistaken.

They Specialized in Teaching Students with Learning Disabilities

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The Academy prided itself on their ability to teach students who had learning disabilities like autism, Asperger syndrome, ADHD, down syndrome, cognitive disabilities and dyslexia. But something had gone terribly wrong with their capabilities to teach their students.

His Attitude Was Unusual

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Davis noticed unusual changes in Camden's attitude a few months into the school year. He was more anxious and aggressive than usual, and he started wetting his bed, which was something he had stopped doing when he was 3. So, she decided to talk to him about it.

She Confronted Him

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When she asked her son if anything was wrong, he wouldn't tell her.  But she got the distinct impression that he was keeping something from her. And as a mom, she wasn't about to give up on him that easily. So, she turned to the school for help.

She Tried Getting Answers From the School

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Davis suspected that her son's odd behavior had something to do with his new school, so she paid Hope Academy a visit and tried speaking with school officials, including the principal. But the school wasn't very accommodating. So she decided to take a different approach.

She Hid a Recorder in His Backpack

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Davis stuck a tape recorder inside Camden's backpack and sent him on his way one morning. She was hoping that the device would give her some clue as to what was really going on at school. But she had no idea that her heart would sink once she heard what was on the recorder.

She Had Taken Desperate Measures

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She realized that her measures were a bit desperate, but since the school didn't want to help her, she didn't have any other choice. As soon as Camden came home, she was eager to hear what was on the recording. But curiosity turned to concern and then outrage. After she heard what was on that tape she started shaking profusely.

She Thought Students Were Bullying Her Son

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Davis had made the assumption that students were bullying her son, which is sadly, not an uncommon occurrence in schools these days. It turns out that she was only half right. Camden was being bullied, but not by the students.

The Recording Revealed the Teacher’s Shady Behavior

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The recording showed that it was the adults at school who were making fun of the way students spoke, and as if mocking wasn’t bad enough, a teacher and teacher’s aide told Camden that someone like him would "never make it" in public school. In that moment, Davis felt like she was about to explode.

She Felt Betrayed by the School

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"I just wanted to cry, scream and do everything I could because it was so bad," she told WBRZ. "To think that I had sent my son there every day, and what had happened before, that I didn't know about." But she wasn’t about to let them get away with it.

She Took Legal Actions Right Away

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She turned to the media as well as social media for help. She even hired a lawyer to pursue legal actions, and Attorney Charlotte McGehee took actions that shook the foundation of Hope Academy to its core. But, the school claimed that Davis didn't come to them first.

She Refused to Speak With School Officials

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Hope Academy principal Linda Stone addressed the allegations in a statement and claimed that Davis had refused to meet with school officials to talk about how to handle the situation. In fact, Stone claimed that she only learned about the incident after the recordings were uploaded online.

The Teachers Paid for What They Did

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The Academy’s officials were alerted to Davis’ recording posted on social media on March 23, 2018, and they immediately took actions to remedy the situation. This led to the eventual termination of two teachers. But Davis’ attorney wasn’t done yet.

Davis’ Attorney Was Horrified

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"One of the worst possible things you can do is take advantage of the infirm, or a disadvantaged child," McGehee told WBRZ. "They need the extra protection, and he didn't get it. When I heard the treatment of this child through the recording his mother made, I was horrified." But McGehee and Davis were determined to ensure this never happened to another student again.

She Wanted Parents to Be on Alert

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Davis shared the audio clips in the hopes of alerting other parents to be on the lookout for similar warning signs in their special needs children that might indicate a similar situation. And the school board’s president assured everyone that things would change.

The School Board Looked for Solutions

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Board President Brandon Black sat down with parents to discuss ways they planned to prevent what happened to Camden from ever happening again. Some of the ideas discussed included finding money in the budget to add cameras in the school, but this wasn’t enough to tame one father’s anger.

Another Parent Was Profoundly Disappointed

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Aidan Reynolds, whose son is autistic, was stunned by Davis’ recordings. "The father in me was outraged, profoundly disappointed," Reynolds told WBRZ. "I was angry. The lawyer in me was, how did they let this happen. How are they screening these teachers? Are they providing them with any support or sensitivity training?"

Sensitivity Training and Other Items Were Discussed

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Some of the items that President Black discussed with parents included sensitivity training for the teachers at Hope Academy as well as running more extensive background checks while the school continued doing some much needed damage control.

Hope Academy Started Doing Damage Control

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Meanwhile, Hope Academy tried doing some damage control. “Over these many years, Hope Academy has built a strong reputation for competently serving the educational needs of the special needs community. These recordings are not an indication of who we are. We ask that the community not let the actions of two persons reflect on the reputation of and the mission of our school—a mission we have tried so hard to build,” Principal Stone explained in her statement. But Davis isn’t taking any chances.

Davis Urged Parents to Look for Warning Signs

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"If they're special needs, look at the situation as to why your child is acting that way, because no child deserves to go through what my child did," Davis told WBRZ. But as a mother, she had to make sure that what happened to her son never happened again.

She Took Her Son Out of Hope Academy

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Davis took Camden out of Hope Academy and enrolled him in a new school. But the trauma of what happened before had left her questioning whether his new teachers could be trusted, so she made sure they were qualified.

She Checked the New Teacher’s Qualifications

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She double checked to see that Camden’s new teacher had a background in psychology and experience in dealing with kids with special needs. But she knows that the repercussions of her son’s ordeals left a bitter aftertaste.

She Hopes Her Son Will Recover

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Unfortunately, the trauma of Camden's experience by his former teachers continues to haunt him. But Davis believes that with some love and support, her son will become the sweet boy he used to be again.

A Dedicated Professor

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Professor Nathan Alexander teaches math at Morehouse College in Atlanta. When one of his students came to class with an unusual request, he was more than willing to help.

A Historic College

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Morehouse is a historic institution, having opened its doors for the first time in 1867 and producing such noted alumni as Martin Luther King Jr. himself. While times have changed in the years since the college was first established, some of the students' challenges have remained the same.

The Pressures of Education

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Student life can be a complicated experience, involving carefully balancing work, education, family and social events. Sometimes, the pressures of daily life can get in the way of a student's ability to learn.

Challenging Studies

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With midterms approaching, student Wayne Hayter was eager to attend a lecture that would cover some of the material he would need to know for his test. There was just one problem: he was double booked.

A Child In Need of Care

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At the time that Hayer was supposed to be attending professor Alexander's lecture, he also needed to care for his daughter, Assata. This tiny little girl was just a few months old, and needed her daddy.

A Happy Family

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Hayter and his wife Firda are trying their best to provide Assata with the best possible start in life. Part of that means lots of one-on-one parent time, and that involves Hayter getting a world class education so that he can provide for her in the future.

Parenting as a Team

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On this particular day, Firta had an important appointment to pick up Assata's birth certificate. She couldn't take the baby with her, but the family was also unable to find childcare to cover the time Hayter needed to attend his lecture.

An Awkward Arrival

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Hesitantly, Hayter strapped his daughter onto his chest and headed to class. He hoped that his professor would be understanding about having an extra student crash his class.

Parent-Teacher Meeting

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Hayter hesitated at the doorway, worried that Assata's presence in the room might disrupt the class. He didn't want to negatively affect everyone else's education just because he had parental responsibilities.

Welcoming to All Students

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When Alexander saw Hayter hesitating, he welcomed him inside with a big smile. Assata was perfectly welcome in the classroom. Although, the professor did notice one problem that Hayter was facing as the lecture progressed...

An Unexpected Offer

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Hayter was having a hard time taking notes while also holding his daughter. She was quite a handful! So, professor Alexander made an offer to help Hayter's note-taking go a little more smoothly.

Strap In!

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Alexander offered to hold Assata so Hayter could listen properly to the lecture. At his professor's insistence, Hayter strapped his daughter onto professor Alexander's chest. But, would Assata appreciate all of the additional attention, or cause a disruption for the other students in the class?

Multitasking

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After a short delay, Alexander continued his lecture with Assata snuggled comfortably in front of him. He was able to continue writing on the board, and the baby was perfectly content.

Photogenic

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Fellow student Nick Vaughn was amazed to watch his teacher multitask. He was also doing his best to swat up before midterms, and was grateful for such a talented and thoughtful professor.

Snap Snap!

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Vaughn was so impressed that he pulled out his phone and snapped a few photos of Alexander at work. He posted them online later, expressing his amazement at the unusual lecture.

An Amazing Teacher

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In the pictures, professor Alexander can be seen casually answering students' questions while simultaneously pacifying and calming Assata. His effortless multitasking and relaxed demeanor are things any parent would be jealous of!

Twitter Gold

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In captioning his photos, Vaughn said, "Student came to class today with his child due to no babysitter or anybody to watch her while he was in class. My professor NATHAN ALEXANDER said “I’ll hold her so you can take good notes!”

A Beloved Professor

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Professor Alexander's kindness and capable babysitting meant that everyone in class was able to learn and prepare for their upcoming midterms. They also gained a new level of respect for their professor.

Doing His Best

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Alexander later stated that he didn't think what he was doing was all that remarkable— Assata was fairly relaxed, so there were no problems. "She was so sweet, y'know, and she had a pacifier there, and I was sort of rocking her half the time when I was doing some equations."

A Photo for Mom

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Vaughn's initial thought in taking the photos was that he wanted to show them to his mother. To his surprise, they were seen by far more people, as his tweet soon went viral.

Going Viral

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The tweet received over three hundred thousand likes, and was retweed over seventy thousand times. Many prominent celebrities, including director Ava DuVernay, commended both Alexander and Hayter for their dedication to learning and to helping Assata feel comfortable.

A Valuable Interaction

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Hayter says that he will never forget the kindness shown to him by his professor. To Hayter, the message is that he, as a young father, is seen and accepted even as he works to receive his education.

Teacher-Student Relationship

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Alexander is a strong believer that his role as an educator means more than just giving his students facts to memorize. He's heavily involved in building a rapport with his students, whether they're in the classroom...

Field Trip

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...Or visiting Six Flags! Seriously, why can't more teachers be like Alexander?!

A True Hero

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Professor Nathan Alexander shows the kind of incredible connection that can be forged between teachers and students of any age so long as we're willing to look out for each other and help lift each other's burdens.