Crying Marriage, China

It’s not unusual for weddings to bring on tears. For the Tujia people, however, it’s expected. A Tujian bride is expected to cry for days before her wedding, and days can mean up to a month. Her mother, grandmother, sisters, and aunts may join her. Not only is there crying, but there are even crying songs to be sang. The crying, and the bride’s ability to sing crying songs, are a symbol of wisdom and virtue.